After spending most of yesterday walking like an invalid, sometime last night while I was asleep my back dropped back into place. I woke up this morning absolutely pain free and with full strength and flexibility. Oh lord, it feels good to be back.

In other news, Sara finally got a permanent teaching job. As of Monday she is working in the Edmonds school district at their newest high school. In a strange bit of irony, that school is only about three miles from where I used to live. Anyway, it's a .6 position -- which means she only has classes three days a week instead of five. Of course, that also means she only gets paid 60% of the full-time salary. Also, because of the vagaries of how the school pay system works she won't get her first paycheck until the end of November. <sarcasm>I think it's really great how well we treat teachers in our society, and I just can't imagine why so many good teachers are leaving the field for private industry<lt;/sarcasm&gt; The upshot is that Sara will have to keep both of her part-time jobs until December. She'll probably keep working at the Disney store beyond that, just because the employee discount is so good and we definitely have a Disney kid. It also means that I will get to put Ben on the bus three mornings a week, which is just way cool by me. One of my great regrets in life is not being able to keep my marriage together, but I am grateful that I have been able to remain extremely involved in Ben's day-to-day life. Being able to wake him up in the morning and send him off to school, even though it's really only a few minutes a day... well, it just feels good. In a way it's kinda selfish of me to feel that way, but I guess it's ok to be selfish when it has the byproduct of being good for the family, right?

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Our culture has weirdly stigmatized the idea of being good to yourself, treating yourself well, wanting things that make you happy. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being happy about getting to spend time with someone you love.
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